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Postpartum Distress

You've just given birth to a wonderful baby, and everyone is so happy and joyful.

Everyone, that is, except you.

If this is supposed to be such a happy time, why do you:

  • Feel overwhelmed
  • Feel anxious or irritable
  • Have difficulty sleeping
  • Feel alone or isolated and want to connect with other parents who are feeling the same way
  • Feel sad, depressed, or can't be bothered with any of the things you used to enjoy
  • Have a hard time feeling connected to your baby
  • Just don't feel like yourself

These can be common signs of postpartum mood disorder, which can be experienced by any new parent—a mom or a dad.

You're not alone. Talking about it helps.

Postpartum Distress Support Group

A good place to start is This is Not What I Expected, a support group where you can get together with other families and talk about how you are adjusting with a new baby. You'll learn ways to cope and get the help you need.

You can attend alone, with your baby, partners or other supportive friends or family members.

Families who attend the group often tell us that it brings them a great sense of relief to connect with other parents who are experiencing similar feelings.

Women who are currently pregnant and have experienced anxiety or depression currently or in the past, are also encouraged and welcome to attend.

This free group meets remotely on the first and third Tuesdays of each month, from 7-9 p.m. For remote access, call our Class Registration line at (425) 544-0050 Monday-Friday 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. or email: parentbaby@evergreenhealth.com.

The group is led by an educator and a licensed clinical social worker who are trained to support parents through these challenges and help you connect with resources in our community for coping with postpartum adjustment and mood disorders.

Could you have postpartum depression? Take this quiz


Other Postpartum Distress Resources

Postpartum Mood Disorders

Perinatal Support Washington
Postpartum Support International

Birth Trauma

Solace Foundation

Related Locations

Upcoming Classes & Events

  • Feb
    7
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 1:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Feb
    7
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 3:00 PM
    How do Newborns look? What do babies need? Learn about diapering, bathing, infant carriers, techniques to soothe your baby asleep, and intro to infant feeding.
  • Feb
    7
    Saturday
    2:00 PM - 2:45 PM
    Join us for a Live virtual tour of our Family Maternity Center on Teams and led by an experienced EvergreenHealth childbirth educator.
  • Feb
    8
    Sunday
    1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
    Learn the best practice recommendations to help your child travel safely, how to choose the best car seat for your baby and family, and how to install it correctly.
  • Feb
    9
    Monday
    4:30 PM - 6:30 PM
    Learn techniques to minimize pain during your pregnancy and the birth process and how to optimize healing after the birth. This class emphasizes ways to avoid problems with the pelvic floor muscles.
  • Feb
    9
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
    A safe and understanding space to share stories, process emotions, and find comfort among others who truly understand.
  • Feb
    10
    Tuesday
    6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Learn about breast/chest feeding your baby as recommended by all of the world's health organizations. Topics: feeding positions, proper latch, pumping/storing milk.
  • Feb
    10
    Tuesday
    6:30 PM - 9:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Feb
    11
    Wednesday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of babies 3-6 months old. Bring your baby and connect with other parents. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    11
    Wednesday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of babies 3-6 months old. Bring your baby and connect with other parents. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    11
    Wednesday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of babies 6-9 months old. Bring your baby and connect with other parents. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    11
    Wednesday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of babies 9-12 months old. Find your village and connect with other parents. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    11
    Wednesday
    1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of newborns. Bring your baby and connect with other parents. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    11
    Wednesday
    1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of newborns. Bring your baby and connect with other parents. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    12
    Thursday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of babies 6-9 months old. Bring your baby and connect with other parents. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    12
    Thursday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of babies 9-12 months old. Find your village and connect with other parents. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    12
    Thursday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of toddlers 12-15 months old. Connect with other parents and find your village. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    12
    Thursday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of toddlers 15-18 months old. Connect with other parents and find your village. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    12
    Thursday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of toddlers 18-21 months old. Connect with other parents and find your village. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    12
    Thursday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Weekly education and support for parents of toddlers 21-24 months old. Connect with other parents and find your village. Led by trained parenting and lactation educators.
  • Feb
    14
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Feb
    17
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • Feb
    19
    Thursday
    6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
    Total body interval workout adjusted to the various pregnancy phases of the attendees. Instruction includes cardio, strength training and flexibility exercises.
  • Feb
    21
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
    Learn about the labor & birth process and labor coping skills, such as patterned breathing and positioning This class has additional time to practice labor coping skills.
  • Feb
    23
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
    A safe and understanding space to share stories, process emotions, and find comfort among others who truly understand.
  • Feb
    26
    Thursday
    6:00 PM - 6:30 PM
    If you are pregnant or planning a pregnancy you will learn more about midwifery care at EvergreenHealth. This class meets virtually.
  • Feb
    28
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
    Learn about the labor & birth process and labor coping skills, such as patterned breathing and positioning This class has additional time to practice labor coping skills.
  • Feb
    28
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 3:00 PM
    How do Newborns look? What do babies need? Learn about diapering, bathing, infant carriers, techniques to soothe your baby asleep, and intro to infant feeding.
  • Mar
    2
    Monday
    7:15 PM - 8:15 PM
    A dynamic yet gentle yoga specifically designed to support women 6 weeks to term.
  • Mar
    3
    Tuesday
    3:30 PM - 5:30 PM
    Learn techniques to minimize pain during your pregnancy and the birth process and how to optimize healing after the birth. This class emphasizes ways to avoid problems with the pelvic floor muscles.
  • Mar
    3
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • Mar
    7
    Saturday
    9:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    New fathers learn to anticipate their baby's five basic needs through hands-on instruction and practice taught by a certified Parent Educator.
  • Mar
    7
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 1:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Mar
    7
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 3:00 PM
    How do Newborns look? What do babies need? Learn about diapering, bathing, infant carriers, techniques to soothe your baby asleep, and intro to infant feeding.
  • Mar
    7
    Saturday
    2:00 PM - 2:45 PM
    Join us for a Live virtual tour of our Family Maternity Center on Teams and led by an experienced EvergreenHealth childbirth educator.
  • Mar
    8
    Sunday
    1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
    Learn the best practice recommendations to help your child travel safely, how to choose the best car seat for your baby and family, and how to install it correctly.
  • Mar
    9
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Childbirth preparation course for birthing multiples. For those expecting twins, triplets or more!
  • Mar
    9
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
    A safe and understanding space to share stories, process emotions, and find comfort among others who truly understand.
  • Mar
    10
    Tuesday
    6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Learn about breast/chest feeding your baby as recommended by all of the world's health organizations. Topics: feeding positions, proper latch, pumping/storing milk.
  • Mar
    11
    Wednesday
    6:30 PM - 9:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Mar
    14
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
    Learn about the labor & birth process and labor coping skills, such as patterned breathing and positioning This class has additional time to practice labor coping skills.
  • Mar
    17
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • Mar
    21
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 1:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Mar
    21
    Saturday
    2:00 PM - 2:45 PM
    Join us for a Live virtual tour of our Family Maternity Center on Teams and led by an experienced EvergreenHealth childbirth educator.
  • Mar
    23
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
    A safe and understanding space to share stories, process emotions, and find comfort among others who truly understand.
  • Mar
    24
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    This class is designed for experienced parents and first-time parents who have completed a childbirth preparation class and would like more time to practice labor coping skills.
  • Mar
    26
    Thursday
    6:00 PM - 6:30 PM
    If you are pregnant or planning a pregnancy you will learn more about midwifery care at EvergreenHealth. This class meets virtually.
  • Mar
    28
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 3:00 PM
    How do Newborns look? What do babies need? Learn about diapering, bathing, infant carriers, techniques to soothe your baby asleep, and intro to infant feeding.
  • Mar
    29
    Sunday
    9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Apr
    1
    Wednesday
    5:30 PM - 6:30 PM
    A dynamic yet gentle yoga specifically designed to support women 6 weeks to term.
  • Apr
    2
    Thursday
    6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
    Total body interval workout adjusted to the various pregnancy phases of the attendees. Instruction includes cardio, strength training and flexibility exercises.
  • Apr
    4
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Apr
    7
    Tuesday
    6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Learn about breast/chest feeding your baby as recommended by all of the world's health organizations. Topics: feeding positions, proper latch, pumping/storing milk.
  • Apr
    7
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • Apr
    11
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 1:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Apr
    11
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 3:00 PM
    How do Newborns look? What do babies need? Learn about diapering, bathing, infant carriers, techniques to soothe your baby asleep, and intro to infant feeding.
  • Apr
    11
    Saturday
    2:00 PM - 2:45 PM
    Join us for a Live virtual tour of our Family Maternity Center on Teams and led by an experienced EvergreenHealth childbirth educator.
  • Apr
    13
    Monday
    6:30 PM - 9:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Apr
    13
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
    A safe and understanding space to share stories, process emotions, and find comfort among others who truly understand.
  • Apr
    18
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
    Learn about the labor & birth process and labor coping skills, such as patterned breathing and positioning This class has additional time to practice labor coping skills.
  • Apr
    20
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Childbirth preparation course for birthing multiples. For those expecting twins, triplets or more!
  • Apr
    21
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Learn the best practice recommendations to help your child travel safely, how to choose the best car seat for your baby and family, and how to install it correctly.
  • Apr
    21
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • Apr
    24
    Friday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Topics include basic child development, safe sleep recommendations, car seat basics, medication safety, and baby-proofing and home safety.
  • Apr
    25
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
    Learn about the labor & birth process and labor coping skills, such as patterned breathing and positioning This class has additional time to practice labor coping skills.
  • Apr
    27
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
    A safe and understanding space to share stories, process emotions, and find comfort among others who truly understand.
  • May
    2
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 3:00 PM
    How do Newborns look? What do babies need? Learn about diapering, bathing, infant carriers, techniques to soothe your baby asleep, and intro to infant feeding.
  • May
    2
    Saturday
    11:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    A dynamic yet gentle yoga specifically designed to support women 6 weeks to term.
  • May
    3
    Sunday
    9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • May
    5
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Learn the best practice recommendations to help your child travel safely, how to choose the best car seat for your baby and family, and how to install it correctly.
  • May
    5
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • May
    9
    Saturday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Learn techniques to minimize pain during your pregnancy and the birth process and how to optimize healing after the birth. This class emphasizes ways to avoid problems with the pelvic floor muscles.
  • May
    14
    Thursday
    6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
    Total body interval workout adjusted to the various pregnancy phases of the attendees. Instruction includes cardio, strength training and flexibility exercises.
  • May
    16
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 1:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • May
    16
    Saturday
    2:00 PM - 2:45 PM
    Join us for a Live virtual tour of our Family Maternity Center on Teams and led by an experienced EvergreenHealth childbirth educator.
  • May
    19
    Tuesday
    6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Learn about breast/chest feeding your baby as recommended by all of the world's health organizations. Topics: feeding positions, proper latch, pumping/storing milk.
  • May
    19
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • May
    20
    Wednesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    This class is designed for experienced parents and first-time parents who have completed a childbirth preparation class and would like more time to practice labor coping skills.
  • May
    21
    Thursday
    6:30 PM - 9:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • May
    26
    Tuesday
    6:30 PM - 8:30 PM
    This in-person class provides support and education for moms who are continuing to breastfeed beyond the first six months.
  • May
    30
    Saturday
    9:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    New fathers learn to anticipate their baby's five basic needs through hands-on instruction and practice taught by a certified Parent Educator.
  • May
    30
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
    Learn about the labor & birth process and labor coping skills, such as patterned breathing and positioning This class has additional time to practice labor coping skills.
  • May
    31
    Sunday
    9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Jun
    2
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • Jun
    3
    Wednesday
    5:30 PM - 6:30 PM
    A dynamic yet gentle yoga specifically designed to support women 6 weeks to term.
  • Jun
    6
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 1:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Jun
    6
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 3:00 PM
    How do Newborns look? What do babies need? Learn about diapering, bathing, infant carriers, techniques to soothe your baby asleep, and intro to infant feeding.
  • Jun
    6
    Saturday
    2:00 PM - 2:45 PM
    Join us for a Live virtual tour of our Family Maternity Center on Teams and led by an experienced EvergreenHealth childbirth educator.
  • Jun
    9
    Tuesday
    6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Learn about breast/chest feeding your baby as recommended by all of the world's health organizations. Topics: feeding positions, proper latch, pumping/storing milk.
  • Jun
    10
    Wednesday
    6:30 PM - 9:00 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Jun
    13
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Jun
    15
    Monday
    4:30 PM - 6:30 PM
    Learn techniques to minimize pain during your pregnancy and the birth process and how to optimize healing after the birth. This class emphasizes ways to avoid problems with the pelvic floor muscles.
  • Jun
    15
    Monday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Childbirth preparation course for birthing multiples. For those expecting twins, triplets or more!
  • Jun
    16
    Tuesday
    7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    Provides emotional support for families who are feeling overwhelmed, distressed, anxious, sad or having trouble adjusting before and/or after the birth of their baby.
  • Jun
    20
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 4:00 PM
    Learn about the labor & birth process and labor coping skills, such as patterned breathing and positioning This class has additional time to practice labor coping skills.
  • Jun
    25
    Thursday
    6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
    Total body interval workout adjusted to the various pregnancy phases of the attendees. Instruction includes cardio, strength training and flexibility exercises.
  • Jun
    27
    Saturday
    9:30 AM - 3:00 PM
    How do Newborns look? What do babies need? Learn about diapering, bathing, infant carriers, techniques to soothe your baby asleep, and intro to infant feeding.
  • Jun
    28
    Sunday
    9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    Birthing class covers the full spectrum of delivery topics: Labor and birth process, labor coping skills, patterned breathing and positioning, pain medication options.
  • Jul
    14
    Tuesday
    3:30 PM - 5:30 PM
    Learn techniques to minimize pain during your pregnancy and the birth process and how to optimize healing after the birth. This class emphasizes ways to avoid problems with the pelvic floor muscles.
  • Jul
    18
    Saturday
    9:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    New fathers learn to anticipate their baby's five basic needs through hands-on instruction and practice taught by a certified Parent Educator.
  • Sep
    19
    Saturday
    9:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    New fathers learn to anticipate their baby's five basic needs through hands-on instruction and practice taught by a certified Parent Educator.
  • Sep
    19
    Saturday
    10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    Learn techniques to minimize pain during your pregnancy and the birth process and how to optimize healing after the birth. This class emphasizes ways to avoid problems with the pelvic floor muscles.
  • Oct
    5
    Monday
    4:30 PM - 6:30 PM
    Learn techniques to minimize pain during your pregnancy and the birth process and how to optimize healing after the birth. This class emphasizes ways to avoid problems with the pelvic floor muscles.
  • Nov
    10
    Tuesday
    3:30 PM - 5:30 PM
    Learn techniques to minimize pain during your pregnancy and the birth process and how to optimize healing after the birth. This class emphasizes ways to avoid problems with the pelvic floor muscles.
  • Nov
    21
    Saturday
    9:00 AM - 12:00 PM
    New fathers learn to anticipate their baby's five basic needs through hands-on instruction and practice taught by a certified Parent Educator.
  • Jan
    8
    Thursday
    6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
    Total body interval workout adjusted to the various pregnancy phases of the attendees. Instruction includes cardio, strength training and flexibility exercises.

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